Have you ever wondered why women fake orgasms?

There are many reasons why a woman would fake an orgasm, but the reason not  is  summed  by one comment on an article that I wrote and that was “how will he ever lean” it was at least worth a laugh but there is much truth to it.  In the end woman who fakes orgasms for many reason are unfortunately not having the benefit of getting one and teaching their partner exactly what not to do.

So the next time you’re in a rush to get it over with or just don’t want to hurt a guys feeling, or don’t know how to achieve an orgasm, stop and think that whatever the reason may be the outcome of faking it really not worth it.  The person that thinks that they are giving an orgasm to you is not leaning how to do it the right way and now he thinks that whatever he done worked.  I guess that if you really didn’t like the guy and he seemed cocky in bed you could teach him exactly what not to do…….

 To read what other had to say go to

http://hubpages.com/hub/a-woman-should-never-fake-an-orgasm-reasons-why

If however if you are not able to achieve an orgasm, the best way to start is on your own with a great vibrator sure to bring you to orgasm in not time!  The LELO Gigi vibrator is proven to give every woman an orgasm! 

The benefits of having an orgasm for your health and your marriage

An orgasm not only feels incredibly good but also has many natural health benefits for your body. When a person has and orgasm it will release natural chemicals into the body that can help relieve tension, help with sleep, menstrual cramps, pain in the body, burns calories and food craving, and will deepen the connection between husband and wife.

When an orgasm happens, the heat beats faster and there is an increase in blood flow followed by a quick drop in blood pressure which helps to relax the body. The body also releases phenetylamine which is a natural form of amphetamine and can regulate craving with added appetite control. The body will release endorphins that mimic the properties of morphine which have been said to reduce pain in the body and also help with menstrual cramping.

When the body does release through orgasm, it helps to elevate tension, anxiety and produces a calming response in the body.

When couples can give each other an orgasm this will deepen the connection of the relationship. In marriage when one person is not able to reach orgasm this can cause tension with the couple’s sex life and eventually lead to sexual dissatisfaction in the marriage from both the husband and wife.

According to JAMA (the Journal of the American Medical Association), 43 percent of American women suffer from some form of "Female Sexual Dysfunction".  Both men and women can experience problems with achieving orgasm. In women the problem tends to be more psychological than physical, which is positive in the fact that a woman can be taught how to achieve an orgasm through masturbation and other techniques. A woman’s orgasm is more complicated than a mans in the way in which women tend to have to have more of a mind body connection to climax.  There are of course medical reasons why a woman cannot achieve an orgasm as well, but the percentage is lower than psychological reasons.