Do women like masculine dominant men still?

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What is it about a man that makes him sexy to a woman? There are so many conflicting views and theories on this very subject from men thinking that it is their bank account, large penis, winning smile, bad boy image. The truth of the matter is when a woman really likes a man, he makes her feel good about herself, she feels safe with him, attracted to him and much of this plays out in his level of confident that he has for himself. These would be traits of a masculine dominate male, not a controlling man or a bully but a man who likes himself. A man that is confident in who he is and wants to share that with a woman.  Are you a masculine dominant male?  Fiind out more in the article below.

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Why a women Should Never Fake An Orgasm with real comments!

Reasons Why

There are reasons why a woman will fake an orgasm and I can understand that being a woman!  With that said, it's not worth lying about it for the sake of the woman herself or the man she is involved with.

 A woman’s orgasm is different than a mans in the sense that most of the sensation is also tied in with an emotional release. When a woman achieves orgasm she not only does so physically but has to mentally be a part of the process as well. The mental orgasm is as import as the physical orgasm, especially in terms of a full release of mind and body. A woman's body is able to achieve several orgasms in a row which can be especially pleasing for her and her partner.

Some Men Know

Faking an orgasm with a man that really knows a woman's body is a lot harder to do than women may think. There are men who do understand a woman’s body and will know when she is not telling the truth and this can damage the trust in a relationship.

When a woman fakes an orgasm she also is not teaching her partner about her body and is cheating him out of that experience as well. When a woman has sex with a man she does not always have to have an orgasm and should be upfront and honest with her partner about that.

Women unable To Have An Orgasm

If a woman is tried or does not want to have sex then she should say so! If a woman is not able to achieve an orgasm at all then she needs to talk to her partner honestly about it! Having an intimate relationship and never being able to achieve an orgasm will take away from the overall enjoyment of both partners. If the woman is faking an orgasm in order not to hurt a man’s feelings this is counterproductive.

A woman that is not able to achieve an orgasm with her partner should tell him so that he can help her and better understand what to do for her.

A woman who has never had an orgasm in her life needs to first take this problem into her own hands (no pun intended) before engaging in a relationship. She needs to get to know her own body and how it works so that she can share that knowledge with her partner. How else can a woman help her partner if she is unable or unwilling to know how to have an orgasm by herself?

The greatest sexual experience that two people can have, is the ability to please each other and have orgasms together.

Here is what other people had to say

Mentalist acer 

Oral release and manipulation by the male can have an enormous effect on a woman having troble with orgasm along with a genuine concern for the female's satisfaction...

BRIAN SLATER 

Hi Dawn, in my younger days when i used to play around as much as i might, i am sure that most of the women i was with would not have an organism as much as i might try. I put this down to not knowing each other very well, rushing and not knowing each other’s bodies. Even though i have always known where the clitoris was. Now i am happily married and we know each other inside out us orgasm regularly. I put this down to being able to relax, being with the right woman and knowing each other’s bodies.

Dawn

Thank-you for the comments they are quite helpful to all the women out there!!!

Sassypoetic 

Hi dawnM

I really liked the way you put that...Yes that is real talk indeed..

OLAR383 

Many couples don’t realize the affect of massage prior to sex, massage in correct room temperature & dim lighting with soft whispers in the ear can work wonders followed by gradual combination of sex & massage.

Combination of sex & massage will have outstanding affect on both partners this can take form from foreplay to penetration without movement from either partner.

Then if your room has full view mirrors or video cam

Full sex will deliver its spark. (Sex is like food) & how you prepare it delivers the taste unless you’re into having a quick snack etc.

Dawn

 Wow what an answer solar that got my mind racing along with my heart pressure!! I could not agree with you more!!!!! lol

katiem2 

A women should not lie about having an orgasm is a great and well written guide. One lie leads to a life of lies which leads to a miserable existence.

Daliah Lego 

Nicely written. I can't agree more, a woman should not fake her orgasm. Not that it is not possible. It is possible easily and a man won't tell the difference if a woman knows how to do it. Not only the ahhhh's and ohhhhh's can be faked, but also muscle contractions are possible to be faked, so a man will not know the difference.

But it is not worth faking an orgasm. If a woman fakes it just to end the session, she does not need sessions like this on the first place. If she fakes it to please her partner, she gives him the wrong impression that he is a king and the like. If a man wants to bring his woman to an orgasm, he should work on it in many ways, it does not come just from "shoveling", sorry for an expression.

Just my opinion.

 Bates

 I faked it and got away with it. But afterwards I begin to be truthful and for some reason the sex got better.

tom hellert 

Dawn what about-they dont fake because they don't have to...I know that sounds chauvinistic but if she is into you should be able to get things done.... or at least it’s more likely when there is a real connection there

TH

Dawn 

I wish that I could say that is true, but there could be women out there that are totally into a guy and the sex can even be great, but she does not know how to have an orgasm. Not all woman know how to have one, this is a fact that is why in the article I mentioned that a woman needs to know her own body before she share it with a man or she can find a man that can help her to achieve an orgasm if he is experienced, but if she fakes it she will never get the help that she needs and who doesn't want to have a mind blowing orgasm........lol think that I need to write an article on women and orgasms, because it is complex

dotty1 

Great article.... gawd we should never fake how on earth will he improve?

Dawn

Hi dotty1, that is the whole point of the article in one sentence "how on earth will he improve"......lol that is so funny!

dashingscorpio 

Your statement, "The greatest sexual experience that two people can have, is the ability to please each other and have orgasms together."

No truer words have ever been spoken. Why would anyone want to fake it is beyond me.

Mary Swan 

You have completely written true about fake orgasm of women. 

dallas93444 

dashingscorpio has stated it best. I prefer honesty. I am not a gas station that needs to be "serviced." I desire/need intimacy and experience the vulnerabilities we each have...

dallas93444 8 weeks ago

dashingscorpio has stated it best. I prefer honesty. I am not a gas station that needs to be "serviced." I desire/need intimacy and experience the vulnerabilities we each have...

Dawn 

Hi dahingscorpio yes I could not agree more with that!

Yes dallas he did stated it best...lol

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