Why a woman may not want her man to give her oral sex

Some women really enjoy it when their man can give them oral sex, and others may shy away from it leaving the man very confused.  Being a man he would expect that oral sex would be the ultimate pleasure to a woman but that is not always the case.  There are a few reasons why a woman may not want oral sex or avoids her man giving her oral sex.

1.       She feels out of control:  when a woman allows a man to give her oral sex she is completely submissive to him, just as a man is submissive to a woman when she has him in her mouth.  A woman can feel out of control for many reasons.  Sexually abused, or has been physically hurt by a man.  Poor body image, told that her vagina is dirty and worried about odor.

2.      The man may not be doing the Job:  Not all women are the same, in fact what one woman may like another woman may dislike.  When the clitoris is stimulated, some women have sensitive clitorises and other may have less sensitive clitoris.

3.      She may prefer to have an orgasm through intercourse, some woman like to have an orgasm through intercourse instead of oral sex.

4.      She may want more than just lips and a tongue down there.  Some women really like to have their g-spot orgasm and clitoral orgasm, so in order to do this man needs to be using his hand or vibrator at the same times as giving her clitoral stimulation.

The best advice it to ask the woman, find out what she likes and does not like.  Oral sex should be fantastic and if you like to give it let her teach you how to give it to her body.  

Holding back your orgasm can create a more powerful experience

When a man and a woman can learn the art of holding back an orgasm they can achieve a more powerful climax with some techniques and patience.  The best place to start is on your own body, getting to know how your own body works is the first step.  Tease yourself first by touching the parts of your body that are closest to the erogenous zone, once you have managed to get your heat growing move to the parts of your body that are the most pleasing.  Build yourself up to almost climaxing then back off, do this several times.  Once you do climax, see how it feels and what you may need to show your partner.

Taking the time to build your climax up with your partner can be especially fun.  They art of teasing is never really touched upon enough and this can be done with mental teasing and teasing each other’s bodies.  Take the time to tease and play with your partner to almost bring them to orgasm and then back away.  Let your partner sit still in the moment of heat and feel all of the powerful urges to want you to continue to please them, once they have been begging for more begin to bring them to climax again allowing the wave of the orgasm to release.  Once you have tried this technique you may want to add a stimulating gel to the female erogenous zone and the male erogenous zone for a deeper more invigorating climax that will make you panting for more.

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