Why a woman may not want her man to give her oral sex

Some women really enjoy it when their man can give them oral sex, and others may shy away from it leaving the man very confused.  Being a man he would expect that oral sex would be the ultimate pleasure to a woman but that is not always the case.  There are a few reasons why a woman may not want oral sex or avoids her man giving her oral sex.

1.       She feels out of control:  when a woman allows a man to give her oral sex she is completely submissive to him, just as a man is submissive to a woman when she has him in her mouth.  A woman can feel out of control for many reasons.  Sexually abused, or has been physically hurt by a man.  Poor body image, told that her vagina is dirty and worried about odor.

2.      The man may not be doing the Job:  Not all women are the same, in fact what one woman may like another woman may dislike.  When the clitoris is stimulated, some women have sensitive clitorises and other may have less sensitive clitoris.

3.      She may prefer to have an orgasm through intercourse, some woman like to have an orgasm through intercourse instead of oral sex.

4.      She may want more than just lips and a tongue down there.  Some women really like to have their g-spot orgasm and clitoral orgasm, so in order to do this man needs to be using his hand or vibrator at the same times as giving her clitoral stimulation.

The best advice it to ask the woman, find out what she likes and does not like.  Oral sex should be fantastic and if you like to give it let her teach you how to give it to her body.